A Tale of a Nicked Heart to be Broken

You can actually control what you feel. You can actually be here and now and take control. You are the power that holds the ultimate control onto your emotion, your action, your body, the situation around you, and how people will treat you. So change whatever you don’t want to happen to you. What you can’t change is how people decide to treat you, but you can influence them by taking control of yourself and how you present yourself into subconsciously molding other’s way to treat you.

I’ve been dealing with broken heart quite frequent. None of them actually mine. But I often assist in mending them. The non-cardiothoracic way. Scalpel and diathermy away. Conventional approach, where all you can do is consult and be expectant. Sometimes too much intervention and meddle-in will only make it worst.

So here again the tips on how to deal with BROKEN HEART on what you can decide about it.

But it can also be used to deal with any kind of feeling and emotion. Just figured it out of the nowhere. This technique called SELF-REALIZATION. Somehow when you can only advice so much, you need to finally let them figure it out themselves. Here, we let them take control instead of you making them do what you want them to do.

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Do you actually think that you deserve something good? Or do you believe that you were born to take all the faults in the world? I believe that having something good is your birthright. So if you decide to take in craps and junks and s**ts and trashes people throws at you, it is your decision. But if you think you want to do something about it, you may PROCEED to steps highlighted below:

• First, you got to recognize it, identify the feeling.
• Second, you got to understand what the feeling did to you? Are you comfortable with it? Is it making you somehow better or rather worse?
• Third, decide whether you want to keep it or lose it.
• Fourth, reconsider whether above decision about the feeling will do good for you? What will not keeping it affects you and vice versa?
• Fifth, figure out what the consequence you chose for the feeling to do to you. Will you chose to let it harm you, or please you?
• Sixth, if somewhat choosing the feeling do you harm, get back to third step.
• Seventh, if somewhat choosing the feeling do you good, keep it, hold on to it and do everything you can in your power to keep it that way or better. You take action!